What do you wish someone had told you?

You've already walked a stretch of road somebody else is just starting.

Whatever it cost you to learn is still worth something to them. That's the whole idea here. You pour in what you paid for, and the next person draws from it.

The water only gets deeper when somebody adds to it.

Before you start

Use any first name you like. A made-up one is fine and common. We publish a first name and a last initial, never a full last name, and you can choose to have your story published with no name at all. Your email is required and is never published or shared. We use it to reach you before anything of yours goes up. Your name can be invented. Your email can't.

Nothing appears in the archive until it's been read and approved. That usually takes a few days.

We're looking for a life lesson you had to learn by living it. Something nobody told you beforehand, that you would want to pass on to whoever comes next.

It does not have to be the hardest thing that ever happened to you. It might be. It might just as easily be the best thing, or something small that turned out to matter far more than it looked at the time. What makes a lesson worth reading is that you learned it firsthand and the person coming behind you would be better off knowing it.

Specific beats general. A story beats a lecture.

How should we credit you? *

Either way, we still need your name and email on file. This is only about what appears publicly.

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Please choose a book category, how to credit you, and accept all four items above to submit.

If you're struggling right now, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. It's free and available 24 hours a day. If there's immediate danger, call 911.